{"id":6662,"date":"2022-06-30T06:42:24","date_gmt":"2022-06-30T14:42:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/?p=6662"},"modified":"2022-06-30T06:42:24","modified_gmt":"2022-06-30T14:42:24","slug":"how-to-love-a-farmer-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/2022\/06\/30\/how-to-love-a-farmer-2\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Love a Farmer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/N2CPtPY55lE\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>\u201cElaine is a marriage counselor, even though she says she is a coach!\u201d says the uncomfortable farmer after a coaching call. I tell my clients \u201ccounseling is about recovery, but coaching is about discovery.\u201d I want farm couples to discover what will work for them to be happier in their relationship as a couple, and as farm partners. Sometimes I ask hard questions that irk people, but they know they need to deal with making their marriage foundation stronger.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">My farmer is male. Your farmer may be female. Please don\u2019t judge me for writing this article from my perspective. Use the tips to enhance your partnership.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">John Gottman\u2019s book <em>\u201cThe 7 principles for making marriage work\u201d<\/em> is a keeper.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Gottman talks about developing friendships in your marriage and learning to make repairs. Buy a copy for wedding gifts, anniversaries, and one for yourself. Our 41<span class=\"s1\"><sup>st<\/sup><\/span> wedding anniversary is July 4<span class=\"s1\"><sup>th<\/sup><\/span>. We married on Independence Day which is of course an oxymoron for marriage!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-6665 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_1883-rotated.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"389\" height=\"519\" srcset=\"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_1883-rotated.jpg 480w, https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_1883-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/IMG_1883-90x120.jpg 90w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 389px) 100vw, 389px\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Here are some of my top of head tips on how to love a farmer:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li class=\"p1\"><b>Respect him<\/b>. Author Emmerson Eggerichs<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>(Love and Respect ) has suggested that men are looking for respect and women need love in relationships. I suspect that your man needs to hear words of affirmation from you that you are \u201cproud of him and appreciate his character and decision-making ability.\u201d Filling up the emotional bank account for each person in your family just takes courage to speak truth and love into the other person\u2019s life. Be intentional about doing it, not just on special occasions. Do you currently show respect to your farmer?<\/li>\n<li class=\"p1\"><b>Cook<\/b>. \u201cHot meals\u201d is on the top of my farmer\u2019s caring list. We took the time to explore the 12 ways we each like to be cared for, wrote it down, and laughed. Wes feels deeply loved when he walks into the house and can smell something good stewing. Only 21% of Canadians still cook from scratch, so affirm your cooking skills and show them off to your family.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>When was the last time you cooked your hubby\u2019s favourite supper? He cares. You can also love your farmer by cooking healthy foods and not stuffing him full of sugary sweets. Love your physical hearts with smart cooking. If you are like my coaching team member Lydia, who is a farmer. She buys bulk meals from local Hutterites to manage her family\u2019s busy schedules at LunaField Farm.<\/li>\n<li class=\"p1\"><b>Time.<\/b> Smalley and Trent use the concept of \u201cword pictures\u201d to convey strong meaning in marriage. When Wes reports that he feels he is getting \u201cleftovers\u201d he is telling me I am spending more energy on my clients, readers, and audience than on him. I don\u2019t like to hear about this kind of leftovers, so I need to check-in and ask how he is doing regarding the time we are spending together enjoying each other and being connected. Quality time is one of the five love languages described by author Gary Chapman. Are you spending more time with grandchildren and neglecting the time needs of your spouse? Could you block off at least one hour a week as \u201cmarriage time\u201d to work on the state of your union? Walk. Date. Talk.<\/li>\n<li class=\"p1\"><b>Service.<\/b> Someone suggested, \u201cclutter is energy constipation\u201d. Our lives can be cluttered with busy activities and taking care of too much stuff. If you are ready to simplify things, how about attacking a project together as a couple. I know a wife who was thrilled to see the ugly old barn burn down (on purpose) as it was part of the view from her home she hated. When I mentioned that the patio furniture needed to be packed away for the winter, I felt deeply loved when that same day the guys hauled it away to the shed on the flatbed. Small acts of kindness really mean a lot to a weary heart. How tidy and clean is your home sanctuary? Clean up together. Mending is also a sign of love. Patches anyone?<\/li>\n<li class=\"p1\"><b>Candy under the pillow<\/b>. Do you still know your farmer\u2019s favourite treat? Is it licorice, almonds, or chocolate? Buy these, and keep some on hand to pop into the lunch kits to the field. A small treat communicates \u201cI am thinking of you and I care about you.\u201d (nuts don\u2019t have sugar, just fat, oh well!).<\/li>\n<li class=\"p1\"><b>Discuss debt together<\/b>. Please talk about spending large sums of money and what impact that will have on the family. Women are tired of off-farm jobs subsidizing the farm cash flow only to discover that their opinion was not brought to the loan negotiating table. Disaster looms when debt is hidden and not openly discussed to explain the \u201cwhy we are doing this\u201d factors. A young hurting farmer confides that he has been separated due to a large dairy debt that was not ratified by his wife, she was deeply hurt that she was kept in the dark. Women, are you using too much \u201cretail therapy\u201d to compensate for marriage deficits?<\/li>\n<li class=\"p1\"><b>Make repairs quickly<\/b>. Nip conflicts in the bud, and don\u2019t let stresses simmer. Have a 10\u2019clock rule that you will commit to resolving conflicts before bedtime so that you can enjoy intimacy and not let the sun set on your anger. Some days you may not be able to resolve things in a day and may then work to agree to \u201cpark the issue\u201d until the next business meeting or coffee time.<\/li>\n<li class=\"p1\"><b>Redemptive separation.<\/b> Addictions like alcohol make require time apart for therapy and rehabilitation.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The intent of redemptive separation is to practice tough love to get the person you love to change behaviors, and come back to the marriage in a healthy way. If your marriage is carrying issues that need counseling therapy, a doctor\u2019s diagnosis, or spiritual care, get help now.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I love my farmer so much I check to see if he is keeping up with his medical care. When is the last time you saw your doctor? Do you even have a doctor? Drugs and alcohol are not good to stress relievers, they cause more harm and hurt to farm families than many people know.<\/li>\n<li class=\"p1\"><b>Kiss often<\/b>. I don\u2019t need to say more.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p class=\"p1\">Have fun loving your farmer and put the \u201czest\u201d back into your marriage this year. Resiliency for farming starts with a strong marriage foundation\u2026and for those couples who are co-habitating ( or as the Aussies say \u201cAlmost married.)\/ We all want to love and be loved.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Elaine Froese and her team of coaches are here to serve your farm family. Reach out at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.elainefroese.com\/contact\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">www.elainefroese.com\/contact<\/a>. Invite Elaine to speak in the fall at your event.<\/p>\n<p>Did you enjoy<em><strong> How to love a farmer? <\/strong><\/em>You might want to check these articles out too:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/2022\/05\/05\/when-it-is-hard-to-honour-mom-what-can-i-do\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">When it is hard to honour Mom what can I do?<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/2020\/07\/21\/dealing-depression-reflections-quiet-chair\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Dealing with Depression: Reflections from the Quiet Chair<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/2020\/04\/21\/daughter-in-law-barrier\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Conflict Resolution: The Daughter-In-Law Barrier<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cElaine is a marriage counselor, even though she says she is a coach!\u201d says the uncomfortable farmer after a coaching call. 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