{"id":6530,"date":"2022-04-07T06:15:34","date_gmt":"2022-04-07T14:15:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/?p=6530"},"modified":"2022-04-07T06:16:40","modified_gmt":"2022-04-07T14:16:40","slug":"stop-the-in-law-rant-change-your-behaviour","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/2022\/04\/07\/stop-the-in-law-rant-change-your-behaviour\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop the in-law rant, change your behaviour"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/IFG3-6DvjB4\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>An American farm woman who moved from Florida to become part of a family farm in the cornfields of Iowa called me one day to say \u201c Elaine I am tired of all the ranting on social media about problems with in-laws. Something needs to shift, and we need to see solutions.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.iowafarmerswife.com\/events\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Click here <\/a>to see action on this issue. Lauren Lundt is a gifted young mom who wants things for farm family dynamics to be different.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here are some of the issues needing to be addressed:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Farm dads to understand how to build respect, trust, and ask for what they need. Recently a young man told me he was committed to staying with his plan to farm, even though his dad rarely affirms his value, never appreciates his input and treats his young dad disrespectfully with \u201cYou are going to run this place into the ground\u201d hurtful comments. I coach young people to not accept bad behaviour and ask for more respectful communication. Profanity on farms stops today.<\/li>\n<li>Farm moms, mothers-in-law (MIL ), and daughters-in-law (DIL )yearn to be seen, have a voice, and stop being the \u201cpig in the middle\u201d of the conflict triangle. Conflict is not bad, but it needs to be resolved. If your MIL is going through your husband and your father-in-law without speaking to you directly, you need to ask for direct lines of communication. \u201cWhat would you like me to do differently?\u201d is a great open-ended question to help find understanding as to the tension triggers being kept fueled by conversations that are not getting to the bottom of the issues.<\/li>\n<li>Farm successors to stand up for what is right and seek common ground. What is it that everyone in your family truly wants? More positive relationships and better communication? Then start acting with kindness, listen well, and stop being so judgmental. I cannot fathom why parents continue to hang up on their DILs or walk away from important conversations. You need to sign up for love and respect once your successor has chosen their life partner. Blessing is your choice, and cursing is not an option. If there are irritations in behaviour or language, then address those issues at the moment with curiosity. \u201cI am just curious, is there something bothering you we need to talk about? My intention is not to cause harm, I want to know what I need to do to make things right with you!\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Farm sons and daughter-in laws to understand the family of origin conflict styles and communication. I come from a line of strong women who were a bit \u201cIrish\u201d in their direct communication style. My hot buttons are folks who are aloof, the kind who are not honest in sharing what they are truly thinking, feeling, needing, and wanting. What is your communication style? Do you need time to process because you cannot think quickly on your feet? Are you a bit too abrupt and concise when it would work better to use a few more words and slow down in your speaking? Are you like me when you want to focus on the status of the relationship and talk about people&#8217;s issues before you get to the \u201cmeat\u201d of the conversation? \u201cDifferent is not wrong, it is just different\u201d. If you would like a free communication style assessment, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.elainefroese.com\/contact\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ask me here<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Navigate new language and approaches for positive conflict behavior. Change your attitudes about conflict being something to be avoided. You are now going to use language that seeks to find out the other person\u2019s perspective. Ask the other person, \u201cWhat creative solutions do you think will work to help us out with this disconnect we are having?\u201d \u201cPlease be patient with my tears, I express emotions easily and, in my family, it is a good thing because we know that feelings need to be validated. My tears are not intended for manipulation!\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Provide tools for profitable family business meetings while sitting with deep emotions. Let\u2019s work out a family meeting to nip these conflict issues in the bud. If you would feel better having an outside facilitator, a farm family coach and her team can help us over zoom. Let\u2019s talk about what we need in the family circle for better family dynamics and keep that separate from our strategic meetings for the farm transition.<\/li>\n<li>Outline the key ways to prevent divorce on farms for the young folks as well as the founders. Divorce on farms does not have to happen. As a farm coach, the divorces I see are the founders getting off-track with their marriage breakdown, and the inability to see conflict resolution as a business risk management strategy. Asking for a pre-nuptial, cohabitation, or marriage contract is not a hard conversation for the reality of farm asset values in 2022. If you are avoiding having this fear-inducing conversation you can ask a farm coach to navigate this with you for your farm team.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/2020\/08\/18\/how-to-prevent-divorce-on-farms\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Click here<\/a> to get my insight.<\/li>\n<li>Order a copy of Farming\u2019s In-Law Factor book <a href=\"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/shop\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-6545 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Perspective-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Perspective-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Perspective-90x120.jpg 90w, https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Perspective-rotated.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I hope to see you on <strong>zoom on March 26th<\/strong>. Share the Iowa Farm Wife link above. I look forward to the day when women in agriculture are singing the praises of their in-laws on Facebook because they are using conflict resolution tools that keep the family circle healthy and whole. Our farms are crying out for solutions because \u201chope deferred makes a heart sick.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Elaine Froese, CSP, CAFA, CHICoach and her team of coaches are here to help you find harmony through understanding. Visit <a href=\"http:\/\/www.elainefroese.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">www.elainefroese.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Did you enjoy<em><strong> Stop the in-law rant, change your behaviour? <\/strong><\/em>You might want to check these articles out too:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/2013\/06\/07\/crippled-by-fear-of-court\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Crippled By Fear of Court<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/2010\/11\/14\/broken-heartland\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Broken Heartland<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/2021\/12\/02\/living-the-life-you-love-as-an-aging-farmer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Living the life you love as an aging farmer<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>An American farm woman who moved from Florida to become part of a family farm in the cornfields of Iowa called me one day to say \u201c Elaine I am tired of all the ranting on social media about problems with in-laws. 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