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As part of the redecorating project of my flooded basement, I took an ancient\u00a0 (faded ) <\/span>mountain print gold framed picture to the glass guys and had a mirror put into the frame.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The print had faded to blues, but the story behind the picture prompted me to \u201crepurpose\u201d what other designers might label \u201cjunk.\u201d This was my mother-in-law’s left behind treasure from a catalogue purchase sometime in the l960\u2019s. My mother-in-law came to this country as a young toddler, with parents, siblings, and a suitcase. She shared her life story with a thankful heart, content to share what she has with others in need,\u00a0 her health, her wealth, her wisdom, and her cookies! \u201cWhen you have enough, the basics, it is good to be content.,\u201d is the gist of what Mom Froese believed. The \u201cnew\u201d mirror reminds me of my beloved mother in law and her ability to be content<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

I asked a few other farmers what they would say about contentment. One fellow had tears well up as he awaits the surgeon\u2019s report. Others just shrugged their shoulders and said, \u201cit\u2019s been a tough year\u202650 years of work is now in jeopardy.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Circumstances may be critical, yet God is still in control. Is this a key to being content no matter what life crisis tries to crush you?<\/span><\/p>\n

In\u00a0 God\u2019s word, the Bible, Paul writes to the Philippians about contentment:<\/span>
\n<\/span>\u201d\u2026I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength.\u201d Philippians [4:11]<\/span>-13. NIV.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"gift<\/p>\n

Wow\u2026what a gift!<\/span><\/p>\n

There might not be a new sofa in the design plan this year, or a trip.\u00a0 The gifts may be letters of love, thankfulness, and affirmation. It might be a physically distanced cup of tea shared in a spirit of friendship and caring with our neighbour. You might want to make an ordinary day more extraordinary, even if you aren\u2019t celebrating a birthday or anniversary.<\/span><\/p>\n

Contentment to celebrate special times in a different way may move you to invite some non-family members to a zoom call party this year!\u00a0 Mom might rearrange the furniture and dig to the back of the attic or closet for long-forgotten treasures that need new light and perspective.\u00a0 I like to spend some days \u201cputzing,\u201d where I dedicate the search of forgotten white glass collections, linens, or art that can find a new place to bring beauty and energy to our home sanctuary.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0Some gifts to the kids \u201ccoming home\u201d may be a family heirloom or book that needs to be passed along to the next generation. Share the story that goes along with your treasure, and do some tidying in the process. When you are storing things as you clean, take a few extra moments to pack away the story that goes with the special clock, ornament, or photo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Someone said that \u201cclutter is energy constipation.\u201d It is time to declutter our lives.<\/span><\/p>\n

What if we as women were content with a kitchen that was \u201cgood enough\u201d and spent our time, energy, and financial resources helping other women locally and globally who are strapped for time and resources?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cRelationships, not achievements or the acquisition of things, are what matters most in life.\u201d says Rick Warren, author of the\u00a0 \u201cPurpose Driven Life.\u201d (Zondervan, 2002).<\/span><\/p>\n

I agree.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"gift<\/p>\n

We can be content with what we have and not worry. (Matthew [6:25]<\/span>-35). We can be content because God will never leave us no matter how tough the situation is. (Hebrews 13:5-6). Those of us who reverence the Lord will never lack any good thing. (Psalm 34:9).<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuck a love note and Bible verse into your loved one\u2019s lunch bag.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bake cookies together or deliver treats to a lonely person.<\/span><\/p>\n

Go skating, sledding, trail riding, skiing, or walking. Look up!<\/span><\/p>\n

Share memories around a scrapbook, photo album, or family history book.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tell stories. Build an outdoor bonfire and roast wieners.<\/span><\/p>\n

Laugh lots. Find a puzzle to work on.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have many tools and resources in your home to be content. Recycle those decorating magazines and volunteer at the local thrift shop. In New Zealand, they call them \u201cOP Shops,\u201d which is short for opportunity shops. We have lots of opportunities to repurpose our stuff and be content with what we have. It might also be a good idea to shut off HGTV to curb your \u201chouse envy\u201d episodes.<\/span><\/p>\n

Open the good book and be content in going God\u2019s way.<\/span><\/p>\n

What would it take for you to be more content? How much is enough?<\/span><\/p>\n

P.S. October 27th is my 64th birthday. I am thankful for good health, recognizing that each day is a gift. Strong families celebrate!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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