{"id":424,"date":"2013-07-08T20:56:16","date_gmt":"2013-07-08T20:56:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/blog\/?p=424"},"modified":"2013-07-08T20:56:16","modified_gmt":"2013-07-08T20:56:16","slug":"the-father-factor-in-farming","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/2013\/07\/08\/the-father-factor-in-farming\/","title":{"rendered":"The Father Factor in Farming"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2756\" src=\"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/The-Father-Factor-in-Farming-710x365.jpg\" alt=\"The Father Factor in Farming\" width=\"710\" height=\"365\" \/>Your father\u2019s particular parenting style is the template that forms the father factor in your career.\u00a0&#8220;If your father has died, that doesn\u2019t mean that the feelings from the relationship are dead,\u201d said Dr. Stephan B. Poulter.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;If your father has died, that doesn\u2019t mean that the feelings from the relationship are dead\u201d &#8211; Dr. Stephan B. Poulter, author of\u00a0<em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.onefatherfactor.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Father Factor: How Your Father\u2019s Legacy Impacts Your Career<\/a><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Sometimes as a farm family coach, I feel like a detective, patiently gathering clues via conversations from the fathers, mothers, sons, and daughters who are struggling with their farm careers. Last month I found a treasured resource; \u00a0the book \u201cThe Father Factor\u201d was recommended by a farm business advisor as the best book he has read, next to the Bible!<\/p>\n<p>Poulter believes that we learn from our father\u2019s rule book about work, relationships, ethics, and money matters. I have learned to ask the founding parents lots of questions about how they got their farms, and what kind of relationships they have or had with their fathers. I am not a clinical psychologist like Poulter is, but I am looking for patterns and \u201cinternal rules or beliefs\u201d that shape the current conversational conflicts I am coaching.<\/p>\n<p>How attached are you to your dad?\u00a0 Poulter describes four emotional bonds as intermittent, avoidant, depressed and secure. I am still coming across men who refuse to seek out a doctor\u2019s treatment for depression.\u00a0 These bonds will give light to some of the workplace issues like self-doubt, lack of focus and motivation and fear of failure.\u00a0 Some of my immigrant families who have grown up in a culture of \u201cwork hard, don\u2019t play&#8221; have an extreme fear of failure that is driving them and driving their kids away from the family farm.<\/p>\n<p>Insights into your dad\u2019s style of relating may also help you figure out how his behavior is impacting your farm business decision making.<\/p>\n<p>Is your dad what Poulter calls:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>a super achiever<\/li>\n<li>a time bomb<\/li>\n<li>passive or negligent<\/li>\n<li>absent<\/li>\n<li>a compassionate mentor?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>How your father interacts with you is a critical piece of information that helps shape you! I discovered this recently when I asked the founding father about his relationship with his dad. The father died when the founder was only a teenager. For many years this farmer has been very cautious, self-sufficient, and not wanting to disclose his true fears to his farm family. This does not surprise me, but it helps me understand why the successors are frustrated. They want action, and Dad wants caution. The farm mom confessed she should have called months ago!<\/p>\n<p>Another example is the \u201ctime bomb\u201d father whose adult business employee children noted that Dad\u2019s emotional inconsistency is creating havoc in the workplace. Their farm business needs better conflict resolution and trust. These adult sons have become very good at reading people and their moods, because of their father\u2019s \u201ctime bomb\u201d style. Unfortunately, I see this style all too often with fathers who are not great at collaborative conflict resolution.<\/p>\n<p>The father\u2019s \u201crule book\u201d can be internalized by sons and daughters. This past year I have had more examples of daughters being the successors to the farm. They are exhibiting the values of hard work, ambition, and achievement, just like their fathers, BUT, they are also crying out for work\/life balance.\u00a0 Poulter says: \u201cdo you need to update your ways of relating that are based on your internal rule book? There are unspoken rules that guide behavior, thoughts, and beliefs.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Values concerning work on the farm are shaped by the role your father has played in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Could you take just a few moments now to reflect on how your father has influenced your beliefs and attitudes about your farm career?<\/p>\n<p>Do you respect your father\u2019s opinions?<\/p>\n<p>Can you book out some quiet time to have a courageous conversation with your dad about his \u201ctime bomb\u201d style and how that affects you? Can you choose to respond to him in a much healthier way?<\/p>\n<p>Do you realize how much your father is impacted by your grandfather?<\/p>\n<p>What insights about your dad\u2019s legacy can you learn from your mom\u2019s impressions?<\/p>\n<p>Do you realize that you can work out new beliefs and ways of relating to your dad?<\/p>\n<p>How would you like to thank your dad for his mentoring and compassion?<\/p>\n<p>Stephan Poulter comments:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEven after your father dies, he will still affect your professional relationships and career development. No matter what boys or girls say to their fathers in a fit of anger, for example, &#8216;I&#8217;ll never be like you&#8217; or how much they try to distance themselves as adults, their dads still cast a long shadow. Typically, people undervalue their fathers&#8217; impact on their lives until their parents&#8217; death. Even then, many men and women don&#8217;t see how a father&#8217;s influence extends past personal traits into the professional world. The values you carry concerning work were formed many years ago in the context and backdrop of your father-daughter or father-son relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cEven after your father dies, he will still affect your professional relationships and career development. No matter what boys or girls say to their fathers in a fit of anger, for example, &#8216;I&#8217;ll never be like you&#8217; or how much they try to distance themselves as adults, their dads still cast a long shadow. Typically, people undervalue their fathers&#8217; impact on their lives until their parents&#8217; death. Even then, many men and women don&#8217;t see how a father&#8217;s influence extends past personal traits into the professional world. The values you carry concerning work were formed many years ago in the context and backdrop of your father-daughter or father-son relationship.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I challenge you to honor your Dad and respect him. Fathers in my coaching sessions sometimes go away feeling a little beat up, because the focus of the issues has many connections back to their choices.\u00a0 I encourage families to recognize what is really important to them and seek to understand the other person\u2019s perspectives.<\/p>\n<p>As a young farm girl, I was taught to be fearless around large steers, drive a combine, and drive in the big city in all kinds of conditions. My dad saw me as a leader and encouraged me to explore the world. At my wedding, he announced that he was pleased I had chosen to marry a farmer. There\u2019s no doubt that my work ethic and ambition has been shaped by my dad\u2019s influence. Yet, there are pieces of woundedness that I can also address. No one is perfect, and we can seek healing in understanding our relationships with our parents.<\/p>\n<p>You might also like to read \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Healing-Father-Wound-Christian-Time-Tested\/dp\/0764205358\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Healing for the Father Wound<\/em><\/a>\u201d by Dr. H. Norman Wright.<\/p>\n<p>Cherish your family.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your father\u2019s particular parenting style is the template that forms the father factor in your career.\u00a0&#8220;If your father has died, that doesn\u2019t mean that the feelings from the relationship are dead,\u201d said Dr. Stephan B. 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