{"id":1821,"date":"2016-01-26T14:00:11","date_gmt":"2016-01-26T20:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/?p=1821"},"modified":"2016-01-26T14:00:11","modified_gmt":"2016-01-26T20:00:11","slug":"cains-legacy-how-to-deal-with-sibling-rivalry-on-the-farm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elainefroese.com\/2016\/01\/26\/cains-legacy-how-to-deal-with-sibling-rivalry-on-the-farm\/","title":{"rendered":"Cain’s Legacy: How to Deal With Sibling Rivalry on the Farm"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"sibling<\/a>The longest relationships we have in our lives are typically those with our siblings, which can last 80 years or longer. I heard a radio announcer mention this one day, then he suggested Dr. Jeanne Safer\u2019s book \u201cCain\u2019s Legacy: Liberating Siblings from a Lifetime of Rage, Shame, Secrecy<\/em> and Regret.\u201d <\/em>\u00a0Wondering what tools Safer has for farm sibling strife, I bought the book to advise you on how to create better relationships with your siblings.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Parents\u2019 Role in Sibling Relationships<\/h3>\n

\u201cWhen people have what they need emotionally, they do not envy what others have\u2026even brothers who have cheated them out of what by rights was theirs (Jacob and Esau story),\u201d Safer writes. I wonder if she has ever interviewed the farm sisters who are taking each other to court over dad\u2019s will?<\/p>\n

Farm families are in deep angst over sibling strife, and you may be shocked at this next observation.<\/h3>\n

\u201cParents are responsible for parenting the sibling rivalry that leads to strife and siblings who have a legacy of grief with each other. Parents should not ignore the violence or fighting between siblings, and they should defang it. Navigate the wrath!\u201d says Safer.<\/p>\n

In my own words, I would say \u201cdiscuss the undisscussabull<\/strong>.\u201d Deal with the issues when they are small, and have the courageous conversations to deal with hostilities before they become entrenched in the family history. If one child is saying, \u201cI am afraid that when our parents die, that you\u2019ll take everything and not leave anything for me!\u201d then talk about your estates, succession plans, and possession wishes.<\/p>\n

Be Conscious<\/h3>\n

\u201cThe most effective strategy is the most elusive: self knowledge and empathy for all combatants\u201d says Safer. What is it that you really want?<\/strong> Can you evoke some empathy to try and understand what your siblings are going through?<\/p>\n

\u201cThe best equipped siblings in strife are those who were well loved themselves (or understand why they weren\u2019t) and have satisfying lives.\u201d Addressing unfinished business with one\u2019s own siblings is the best way to foster mutuality in the next generation.<\/p>\n

What Type of Sibling Relationships Are You Modeling?<\/h3>\n

Do you have awareness of the conflict and the will to change the future relationships in your family? Many folks I coach are reenacting the past.<\/strong> Safer challenges us to repudiate Cain\u2019s legacy (Cain killed his brother Abel in the Bible account). She says all we need is \u201cconsciousness and a new perspective on the past will open up for us.\u201d<\/p>\n

When I work with farm families, I usually ask them to tell me the stories about how the dad and mom got the farm from their parents. I am looking for clues and patterns or perspectives on fairness, and keeping the farm intact. Usually there is a rough relationship between farming brothers, the uncle, and things that the current founders want to avoid with their legacy.<\/p>\n

Tips on Coping with Siblings<\/h3>\n

I am curious if you are courageous enough to be more aware of the internal struggle that your siblings cause in you? <\/strong>Anxiety about knowing and revealing unacceptable feelings (like hate) keeps you stuck, and inhibits what you say to your siblings. Likely they already know the truth about how you feel about what is happening.<\/p>\n

Could you approach a sibling with: \u201cLet\u2019s work on our relationship so that we want to be together?\u201d<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s some insights that might help you cope:<\/h3>\n
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  • Move on.<\/strong>\u00a0 This is a coaching term that helps people see that things may never change, so they need to let go and move on. This happens when you create a place of your own while maintaining a very minimal role in your farm family home. Essentially you stay connected in a very small way, and build a satisfying life beyond the farm.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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    • Irreconcilable differences that are beyond repair may teach you to look in the mirror and spare the next generation from the same mistakes.<\/strong> The desire for reconciliation needs to come from both siblings in order to be effective.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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      • Adopt new \u201cfamily\u201d or find a surrogate family<\/strong> as Safer calls it. We have found our church family to be a part of our extended family, people who chose to love and care, even when they are not true relatives. Safer feels that \u201cbrotherhood or sisterhood should be earned.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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        • Grieve your losses<\/strong>. What struck me about Safer\u2019s insights is that \u201csiblings are indelible, they are written in your heart and your history. Severing your external relationships doesn\u2019t mean that you can divest yourself of the internal relationship.\u201d So the folks that I meet that have severed physical ties with siblings, are still deeply affected by their heart string struggles of wondering what went wrong.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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          • Make a choice<\/strong>. \u201cWhatever decision you make about the type of relationship you will have with a problem sibling, make it a conscious choice; you will have fewer regrets later on. Avoiding the painful truth, blaming external circumstances, letting the relationship trail off, or believing it no longer matters prevents recognition, resolution and mourning. Acknowledging reality liberates emotional energy, and this will help you discover men and women who can become your authentic psychological brothers and sisters even is they are not your biological ones.\u201d (Safer, page 211.)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

            Ten Tips for Moving from Strife<\/h3>\n
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            1. Strive<\/strong> to see the world from the other person\u2019s perspective.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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              1. Empathize<\/strong> and appreciate what the other sibling has tried to do. Build on the positive.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                1. Explain<\/strong> the \u201cwhy\u201d or the intent behind estate decisions.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                  1. Don\u2019t<\/strong> let the parents sow the seeds of favouritism.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                    1. Take initiative<\/strong> to have frequent conversations so that you are not kept apart by silence.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                      1. Some people love money more than relationship. Let them go.<\/strong> Money does not buy love. Identify the roles your parents played or contributed to the conflict so you can alter the outcome.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                        1. Embrace <\/strong>honest conversations. Be real. Hurt siblings need to be validated by being seen and heard before forgiveness comes. Rebuilding trust takes time and self-awareness.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                          1. Accept <\/strong>\u201cgood enough.\u201d \u201cSometimes you have to adjust your notion of the perfect reconciliation to the good-enough one that accepts the other person as she is,\u201d says Safer.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                            1. Seek <\/strong>common ground or common interests, rather than staying stuck in your positions. What is it that you both really want?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                              1. Take risks<\/strong> to have courageous encounters that build trust. \u201cYour willingness to hear, undefensively, how the other person sees the situation establishes trust, which is the most potent tool for reconciliation\u201d says Safer.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                Be receptive to emotional engagement to search for insights into your sibling strife history. As Dr. Jeanne Safer explains, \u201cThe only person whose involvement you can control is yourself.\u201d<\/strong> I would add that you might also want to pray for wisdom and divine intervention in the process.<\/p>\n

                                What about you? Share with me the tips that work for you to heal sibling strife.<\/em><\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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