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65: How Therapists Can Help Farmers

Elaine Froese — Tue, 31 Mar 2026 04:00:13 +0000

In this episode, I sit down with Colleen Stegenga, an ag-informed therapist from South Dakota, for an honest conversation about the emotional side of farm succession.

Colleen shares how her work with farm families has shown her that transition planning often stalls not because people don’t care, but because grief, fear, guilt, and old family patterns are getting in the way. From identity loss in older generations to communication struggles between siblings, this discussion highlights why emotional healing is often a necessary first step.

Together, we talk about how therapy can support the succession process, why families need a safe space to say what hasn’t been spoken, and how healthier communication can make the road forward feel more possible.

“It’s never too late to get things on the right track, and it’s never too early to start thinking about what that legacy means to you.” — Colleen Stegenga

In this episode, they discuss:

The emotional challenges faced by farm families during succession.
How grief, fear, and guilt impact decision-making.
The importance of early conversations about legacy, identity, and expectations.
Strategies for reducing stigma around mental health in rural communities.
The role of family dinners and regular check-ins in strengthening relationships.
Navigating sibling dynamics and fairness in inheritance.
The benefits and accessibility of telehealth for farm families.
Practical communication tips for difficult conversations.
Creating safe spaces for emotional expression and conflict resolution.
The significance of personal and cultural identity is tied to farming.

Resources Mentioned During This Episode

About Our Guest

As a licensed social worker, Colleen Stegenga combines her knowledge of agricultural life, her lived experiences, and her occupation as a therapist to serve farmers, their families, and rural areas by advocating for the importance of mental health awareness and support in these communities. Having grown up on a dairy farm in small-town South Dakota, Colleen is familiar with the challenges and triumphs that accompany the farming profession. As a therapist, she helps equip clients with the tools to manage and overcome the symptoms of anxiety, depression, dysfunctional families, negative self-esteem, and more. By founding Embracing Change Counseling LLC, Colleen has strived to create a welcoming, compassionate space where individuals feel seen, supported, and empowered.

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Timestamps

[00:30] – Introduction to farm family transitions and emotional support
[03:15] – Colleen’s journey to becoming an ag-informed therapist
[05:45] – The emotional impact of farm succession: grief, fear, guilt
[08:35] – How farm identity influences transition challenges
[11:30] – Addressing fears of failure and change among aging farmers
[14:35] – Sibling relationships and fairness in farm inheritance
[17:40] – Preparing families for tough conversations about legacy
[19:55] – The importance of mental health awareness and de-stigmatization
[22:20] – How telehealth helps farm families access therapy
[26:30] – Ways to foster connection and celebrate family bonds
[30:40] – Effective communication strategies and conflict management
[33:30] – Building a supportive, respectful family environment
[36:30] – Recognizing and addressing estrangement in farm families
[39:30] – The power of early planning, hope, and ongoing support

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64: Smart Money Habits for Young Farm Families

Elaine Froese — Tue, 17 Mar 2026 04:00:06 +0000

In this episode, Elaine sits down with Jenny Weg, a young farm mom from Iowa, for an honest conversation about money, family, and preparing the next generation well.

Jenny shares how she and her husband are thinking intentionally about finances while raising three young daughters on the farm. From paying kids for the work they contribute, to saving early and planning for future opportunities, this discussion highlights practical ways farm families can build financial strength over time.

Together, Elaine and Jenny talk about why money conversations matter, how expectations around the farm can create tension if they’re never discussed, and why thoughtful planning today can make life easier for the next generation tomorrow.

“We really tried to tackle all of our personal debt to get all of that out of the way. And now that farming has come into our lives, we realize there’s going to be debt that we have to carry with that. But just doing it in a very smart and strategic way so that we don’t overextend ourselves and so that we can be there to prepare not only ourselves, but the next generation, and set them up properly for when it’s time for them to take over.” – Jenny Weg

In this episode, they discuss:

Why teaching kids about money early can build responsibility and confidence.
Paying farm kids for their work and saving for their future.
Long-term thinking when it comes to farm succession and family wealth.
When it’s wise to bring in a financial planner.
Setting timelines and goals for transition conversations.
Balancing motherhood, farm work, and family priorities.
Navigating expectations and avoiding entitlement conflicts in farm families.
Simple ways to manage household finances and stay focused on long-term goals.

This episode is especially helpful for young farm families who want to be proactive about money, communication, and creating opportunities for the next generation.

Resources Mentioned During This Episode

About Our Guest

Jenny Weg is a fourth-generation farmer and farm finance mom behind The Faithful Farming Family. She helps families build generational wealth by teaching them how to legally and strategically pay their kids through the family business. Through faith, farming, and practical financial strategy, she’s on a mission to help parents secure their future — and their kids’.

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Timestamps

[00:30] – Welcome and episode overview: addressing entitlement and financial planning in farm families
[02:52] – Jenny’s background and how faith influences her farm and family approach
[03:57] – The importance of conservative financial practices in farm succession planning
[04:45] – The benefits of paying children for farm help and building generational wealth
[06:15] – Using tax-advantaged accounts like Roth IRAs for farm kids
[07:08] – The significance of starting financial education early for the next generation
[08:35] – Addressing entitlement and fairness issues within farm families
[09:51] – Conversations with aging parents about farm transition and legacy planning
[12:27] – The importance of planning ahead and consulting a financial advisor early
[13:11] – The complexity of family relationships and managing expectations across relatives
[14:38] – Legitimacy of paying children legally and ethically for farm work
[16:21] – Practical household management: budgeting and living conservatively
[17:23] – Building readiness for opportunities like share purchases or farm buyouts
[18:38] – The importance of clear communication and family involvement in decisions
[21:15] – Using simple, strategic investments to grow farm family wealth over time
[24:08] – Balancing family roles and farm responsibilities—staying resilient and present
[27:15] – Common challenges farm women face: feelings of undervaluation and the importance of communication
[29:06] – The role of family relationships over business conflicts and setting shared priorities
[29:47] – Next steps: planning, patience, and building cash reserves for future opportunities
[30:50] – How to connect with Jenny on social media for more farm family finance tips

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63: Future-Proofing Your Farm: Insights from Dr. Kate Burke

Elaine Froese — Tue, 03 Mar 2026 15:06:54 +0000

In this episode, Elaine sits down with Dr. Kate Burke for a thoughtful and deeply practical conversation about what it really takes to plan well for the future of your farm.

Because succession isn’t just about land, shares, or strategy, it’s about people.

Together, they explore why strong farm transitions begin with understanding your family first. What does each person want? What are they afraid of? What expectations are sitting quietly under the surface?

Dr. Burke brings insight from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help families communicate with more clarity and emotional steadiness, especially when conversations feel hard.

You’ll hear about:

Why succession planning must start with family, not just farm assets.
The emotional identity shift from leader to mentor to elder.
How our thinking patterns influence decisions more than we realize.
Questions that uncover purpose, expectations, and long-term vision.
Why trust and ownership are built through small, clear actions.
Planning for long-term care and end-of-life decisions with courage.
Simple frameworks like CARE that bring structure without overcomplicating things.

“As humans, we’re emotional. It’s a signal. It’s data. We’ve been led down a path since industrialization that to be good at business, emotions didn’t matter. But really good businesses are emotionally intelligent. They may not know it, but they’re actually good at dealing with people, good at understanding and managing themselves.” – Kate Burke, Think Agri

This conversation is a reminder that you don’t need a complicated strategy to future-proof your farm. You need clarity, emotional honesty, and the willingness to ask the right questions.

If you care about your family and your legacy, this episode will give you practical tools and a deeper understanding of what truly holds a farm together.

Resources Mentioned During This Episode

About Our Guest

Dr Kate Burke is an Australian Agri Strategist, author and speaker. Drawing on three decades in agronomy, consulting, and family business facilitation, Kate blends practical business thinking with an understanding of the people behind it. She guides families past the numbers and documents to tackle what really shapes farm strategy and succession: questions of identity, fairness, readiness, communication, and intergenerational trust.

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Timestamps

[00:30] – Welcome and episode overview: why family and emotional clarity matter
[02:36] – Start with family, not farm: the importance of family-focused planning
[06:44] – Introduction to ACT therapy in farm succession: acceptance and values-based actions
[09:16] – Valuing emotional wealth: key questions to start meaningful conversations
[13:56] – Understanding the mentor-to-elder transition: identity and self-worth issues
[17:04] – Building trust and emotional steadiness in future farm leaders
[18:23] – Shift from fixing problems to guiding towards desired futures: towards and away moves
[19:45] – Overcoming resistance: moving from defense to offense in farm planning
[20:37] – The role of financial clarity and emotional expectations in weaving a successful succession
[25:31] – How to discover good perspectives: asking “What do you want and why?”
[27:02] – Attachment to land and legacy: crucial but often overlooked considerations
[29:33] – Function and family harmony: aligning team and family objectives
[32:10] – The performance framework: managing farm viability and productivity
[35:14] – Strategy essentials: simple actions over complex plans
[37:01] – Ownership and its emotional significance in farm legacy
[40:17] – Planning for retirement, aging, and legacy: tough questions and long-term care
[46:16] – Summing up: combining profitability with family care for a balanced farm future

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62: A Farm Mom’s Transition Insights

Elaine Froese — Tue, 17 Feb 2026 16:00:13 +0000

In this episode, I sit down with dairy farmer Denise Angst for an honest and encouraging conversation about navigating farm transition in real time — while life, loss, and change are all happening at once.

Together, we explore how clarity, communication, and respect across generations can turn uncertainty into opportunity.

We talk about why starting with simple family meetings matters, how fairness looks different than equality, and what it takes for parents to let go while still providing stability and support.

Denise also reflects on her own personal growth journey, the courage it takes to ask hard questions early, and why investing in yourself as a farm woman strengthens the entire family business.

If you’re wondering how to begin succession conversations, how to support multiple children with different paths, or how to move forward without having everything perfectly figured out, this episode offers a hopeful, practical look at what’s possible — one conversation at a time.

“Different is not wrong. It’s just different. The younger generation needs to respect the older generation, and we need to respect the younger generation. Let them talk about their ideas.” – Denise Angst

Resources Mentioned During This Episode

Wellington County Transition Planning Resources: https://www.wellington.ca/business-development/environment-agriculture/transition-planning

Empowe-HER-ed Book Order Link: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScXeW38zQC6WXvtoTglv009a9_pTS8vrtgGcxtEQGdooLKz5g/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=102144042538019289024

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Linktree for all Connections: https://linktr.ee/denisemyjourney

About Our Guest

Denise Angst is a dairy farm partner who built a dairy farm business with her husband after immigrating from Switzerland in 1997. She is a proud mother of three grown children — two sons and a daughter — and values the journey of raising her family while remaining deeply rooted in the community. Along the way, Denise drove a school bus for 15 years and volunteered in various roles, always giving back where she could.

Over the past nine years, her commitment to personal growth has led her to become a first-time author, contributing a published chapter about how she found the strength to put herself first, and she is now preparing to host her third women’s retreat.

Recently, Denise transitioned into an office administration role, drawing on decades of farm office experience. By stepping off the farm’s daily operations, she is intentionally creating space for the next generation to take on leadership and office responsibilities, while continuing to guide and support the farm’s succession with confidence and strength.

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Timestamps

[0:00:30] – Intro & how Denise met Elaine/background
[0:03:05] – Big family & housing changes (boys move out, parents move to town, daughter in basement)
[0:05:38] – Training Lucas as successor, giving him management responsibility
[0:05:44] – Paying kids for farm work, ideas of fairness vs equal
[0:11:11] – New Zealand idea, Peter’s surgery, Denise’s mom passing, Denise’s personal growth
[0:14:07] – Starting family meetings, updating the will, using Elaine’s workshop tools
[0:19:16] – Patrick’s role, land purchase, non‑dairy path & custom farming options
[0:20:37] – Sweat equity, Lucas tracking all hours, housing/heat as part of compensation
[0:22:20] – Accountant meeting, will changes, protecting Lucas if parents die suddenly
[0:22:57] – Parents’ income/retirement planning, Denise’s off‑farm job, risk & cash flow
[0:26:44] – Next‑step planning: documenting needs for Lucas and for Peter & Denise
[0:29:08] – Cohabitation agreement for Lucas’s girlfriend as a risk‑management tool
[0:32:09] – Why other families avoid succession talks (fear, hard conversations)
[0:34:13] – Peter’s backstory, losing his dad at 17, being ready to hand over management
[0:35:44] – Mutual respect between generations; recognizing different strengths
[0:38:24] – Questions from “Your Farm, Your Future” (excitement, emotions, success, timing)
[0:39:59] – What “good management” means when roles are split (barn vs office)
[0:41:03] – Shifting responsibilities, moving bookkeeping to AgExpert Online
[0:42:33] – Knowing what they own, investments, and the “gift” they want to give their kids
[0:44:27] – Cleaning out the farmhouse, kids choosing sentimental items
[0:46:55] – Message to farm women: self‑care, personal growth, and resilience
[0:48:23] – Closing: this is a “happy” succession story that’s still unfolding

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61: Overcoming Loneliness on the Farm

Elaine Froese — Tue, 03 Feb 2026 05:00:20 +0000

In this episode, I sit down with therapist, speaker, and executive coach, Carolyn Klassen, who holds a Master’s in Marriage, Family, & Child Counselling and an undergrad in Occupational Therapy, for an eye-opening conversation about one of the quietest challenges in rural life: loneliness.

Carolyn, creator of The Loneliness Course, shares why loneliness isn’t always visible, and how many farm women feel isolated even while surrounded by people and productivity. Together, we unpack the concept of social health and why real connection is just as essential to wellbeing as food, water, and sleep.

Carolyn also explains why meaningful connection takes courage, how rural life complicates vulnerability, and why we need to revive the lost art of popping by, picking up the phone, or simply inviting someone in.

If you’ve ever felt unseen in the busyness of farm life or wondered how to help others feel like they belong, this episode will give you the language, tools, and permission to make the first move.

“We do not have to hide that we struggle. What we get to decide is who we share that with—so we can have that sense of knowing that we aren’t alone in our struggle.” – Carolyn Klassen

Resources Mentioned During This Episode

The Social Health Checkup
- Use coupon code FARM for 60% off the Loneliness Course

About Our Guest

Carolyn Klassen is a seasoned therapist at “Wired for Connection” and the creator of The Loneliness Course. With years of experience supporting individuals through emotional and relational challenges, Carolyn has a deep understanding of how very hard ‘humaning’ can be.

She offers science-backed, heart-forward tools that support healing within a grounded program, bringing together science, compassion, and community wisdom to help people move from isolation to connection.

With a heart for belonging and a gift for creating safe, inclusive spaces, Carolyn speaks to our inherent need for one another. Her work reminds us that healing often starts with being present for ourselves and for each other.

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Timestamps

[0:00:03]3 — Introduction and context of the podcast, recognition of listeners.
[0:01:37] — Introduction of loneliness as the main topic, Carolyn’s work on loneliness.
[0:04:07] — Discussion of “social health” and its importance.
[0:04:54] — The Harvard Study: quality of relationships and health outcomes.
[0:05:30] — The need for meaningful connection, “eight-minute people” and vulnerability.
[0:07:00] — “Facebook fine” concept, technology’s role, insights from women’s conferences.
[0:10:30] — Loneliness not as a personal flaw, causes, and validating the feeling.
[0:13:14] — Post-COVID isolation and modern communication habits.
[0:14:50] — Tools and strategy highlights from the loneliness course and video.
[0:17:01] — Unique rural community issues, financial burdens, multigenerational stress, boundaries, and privacy.
[0:20:30] — The importance of sharing personal stresses and anxiety in the community.
[0:20:57] — Personal anecdotes on dealing with loneliness, sleep apnea, and community support.
[0:25:30] — The challenge and vulnerability in reaching out, anecdotes about social outreach.
[0:26:26] — Scientific research on connecting with strangers, the benefits of vulnerability, and how to overcome social anxieties.
[0:28:36] — Examples of connecting with strangers, benefit of sharing struggles, and the importance of not hiding difficulties.

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60: Hug of War: Managing Polarities in Farm Families

Elaine Froese — Tue, 20 Jan 2026 16:00:49 +0000

In this episode, I sit down with executive coach and author Cathy Carroll for a heartfelt and eye-opening conversation about one of the most overlooked challenges in farm families: navigating the tension between love and logic.

Cathy, founder of Legacy Onward and author of Hug of War, shares how families can move beyond black-and-white thinking and start seeing conflict not as something to avoid but something to manage. Together, we explore the concept of polarities: two opposing but equally valuable truths, like tradition and innovation, control and trust, or fairness and equality.

We talk about why trying to “solve” these tensions often backfires, and how learning to embrace both sides can transform your family’s conversations, decisions, and leadership. Cathy also shares tools to help you create healthier dynamics, lead with clarity, and make space for both your heart and your head.

If your family feels stuck between generations, mindsets, or values, this episode will give you a powerful new lens—and the language to move forward together.

“In a family business, you’re not choosing between right or wrong; you’re holding two right answers at the same time. The challenge is not to solve the tension, but to manage it so you get the best of both worlds.” — Cathy Carroll, MBA, MCC

Resources Mentioned During This Episode

Free Family Business Polarity Assessment https://www.legacyonward.com/assessment
- manage common polarities in a family business

About Our Guest

Cathy learned about family business leadership the best way you can – by leading her family business. After a twenty-year corporate career, she left United Airlines to lead her father’s business and instantly recognized a difference between leadership in a family business vs leadership in a large corporation.

Founder and President of Legacy Onward, Inc., Cathy Carroll is an internationally recognized family business leadership coach, speaker, and author of “Hug of War: How to Lead a Family Business With both Love and Logic.” She also trains advisors serving family enterprises on the fundamentals of polarity thinking.

Cathy earned certificates in both Leadership Coaching and Executive Facilitation at Georgetown University, an MBA at the University of Chicago Booth School of Business, and a BA at Boston College. She is also a Master Certified Coach (MCC) in the ICF.

An active member of the community, Cathy currently serves as Chair of the Board of the Purposeful Planning Institute and co-founder & Treasurer of A Leg To Stand On.

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Timestamps

[0:00:00] — Introduction to the podcast, Cathy Carroll’s background, and the purpose of the episode.
[0:07:15] — Managing the “equal vs fair” polarity in family business compensation.
[0:12:41] — The polarity between business mindset (logic/profit) and family mindset (love/fairness).
[0:14:38] — Domain crossover: balancing family and business relationships in decision-making.
[0:16:59] — Shadow influencers: how people without formal authority impact family business outcomes.
[0:17:54] — Tradition vs. innovation polarity within generational family businesses.
[0:22:48] — Emotional vs. Rational polarity in business decisions.
[0:24:12] — Reveal vs. Conceal: transparency and privacy in family wealth and information sharing.
[0:29:38] — Privileges vs. Responsibilities polarity, and the risks of imbalance.
[0:34:09] — Investing in the business vs. harvesting profits for family use.
[0:38:33] — Task conflict vs. Relationship conflict and their roles in farm family businesses.
[0:42:40] — Family first vs. business first: balancing needs for long-term sustainability.
[0:44:48] — How to shift from “either/or” thinking to managing polarities for family business success.

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59: Discuss the Undiscussabull™: Tools for Talking About Transition

Elaine Froese — Tue, 06 Jan 2026 15:19:36 +0000

Happy New Year, Folks! To kick off 2026, I sit down with Walt Moore, president and general manager of Walmoore Holsteins Inc., a five-generation dairy farm in Pennsylvania. In this candid conversation, we look at the Undiscussable issues facing farm and ranch transition — particularly those surrounding family identity, retirement, and growth.

Walt shares his family’s journey, including the 18-month planning process, the role of outside advisors (like their specialized financial guide), and how they navigated a complex blended family structure to bring in the fifth generation. We learn about their family’s strategy of “stepping back without stepping away,” managing non-farm heirs, dealing with issues of housing and debt capacity, and the critical importance of financial transparency for legacy success.

Walt’s insights reveal positive conflict behaviors and the power of peer support groups. This episode is packed with essential tools and motivation for any farm family looking to find harmony through understanding and proactively plan for their future.

“You’ve got to communicate — don’t be afraid to ask questions, and don’t feel like you’re on an island. I’m in a couple of groups, and you realize really quickly that we’re in the same trenches. When [you’re in] a good group that’s transparent with each other and willing to help each other, that’s hard to beat.” – Walt Moore, president of Walmoore Holsteins Inc.

About Our Guest

Walt is President and General Manager of Walmoore Holsteins, Inc. The family farm has been in operation for over 116 years and 5 generations. Walt is in partnership with his wife, Ellen, and three 5th-generation partners – Luke, Andrew, and Chase.

Walmoore Holsteins, Inc. milks 1150 cows with a 32,000-pound herd average, raises 900-plus replacement young stock, 150 Wagyu crosses, farms 2000 acres of corn for silage and grain, alfalfa, soy beans, triticale, and grass hay. Walmoore employs 17 full-time and several part-time people. Walt is also the General Partner of Moore Family Farm LP, which was formed as a land holding company. Additionally, Walt and Ellen, with partners Duane and Marilyn Hershey, started Moocho Milk Transportation Inc. in 2006 to haul their own milk. Walt and Ellen, along with their son Jake and his wife, own Moore Meats LLC, a premium American Wagyu farm-to-fork meat company.

Walt has traveled to other states and China, helping to educate producers on Best Management Practices. He serves on several committees, including the Chester County Conservation District Board, London Grove Friends Finance Committee, Land-O-Lakes Master Focus Group, and the American Dairy Coalition, currently serving as President. Walt has also served on the Horizon Farm Credit Customer Advisory Board and on the Center for Dairy Excellence Foundation Board, serving as President for two years. He has served on the PDMP board as the Vice-President and President.

In his leisure time, Walt enjoys spending time with his family, attending PSU football games, hunting, boating, and traveling.

Contact Walt
Contact Walmoore Holsteins, Inc.
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Timestamps

[0:00:00] – Introduction, Podcast, Guest Welcome, Purpose of Episode
[0:00:43] – Guest Bio: Walter Moore, Family Farm Overview, Dairy Operations
[0:04:40] – Discussing Transition, Generational Change, Retirement, and Successor Dynamics
[0:10:00] – Legacy Goals, Financial Planning for Next Generation, Advisors’ Role
[0:13:25] – Housing for Family and Employees, Family Member Roles
[0:16:41] – Fairness, Family Compensation, Involvement of Blended Family and Non-family Employees
[0:21:04] – Operational vs. Strategic Management, Corporate Meetings, Vertical Integration (Milk Transport Business)
[0:25:00] – Financial Transparency, Budgeting, Planning for the Future
[0:29:03] – Overcoming Procrastination, Learning from Previous Generations, Will and Estate Updating
[0:32:45] – Risk Management, Divorce, Relationship Dynamics, Inter-spousal Agreements
[0:36:34] – Conflict Management, Importance of Communication, Peer Groups and Networking
[0:38:10] – Final Takeaways and Advice: Passion, Teamwork, Continuous Learning

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58: Tools to Align Visions When Spouse or Siblings Disagree

Elaine Froese — Tue, 23 Dec 2025 23:44:41 +0000

In this episode, I sit down with Kevin Hegedus, Certified Financial Planner and founding partner of PWM Private Wealth Counsel, for a practical conversation about how to align vision with siblings and/or spouses when there’s lots of disagreement.

Kevin brings years of experience helping farm owners and families sort through the financial intricacies and reach retirement confidently. Together, we explore misalignment between spouses’ vision for retirement and transition timing, and the value of early planning and using tools for transition.

We discuss the 3 key farm transition snapshot points; the difference between equal vs. fair inheritance; and the importance of family meetings, celebrations, and communication. Kevin also brings valuable insight into contingency planning and long-term care for aging farmers.

If you or someone you know is struggling to find alignment with their farm spouse or siblings, this episode is for you.

“It boils down to having those early [planning] conversations. None of us are going to be here forever, so how do we make sure that what we worked so hard for transfers to the next generation properly.” – Kevin Hegedus, PWM Private Wealth Counsel

Resources Mentioned During This Episode

PWM Private Wealth website: https://www.pwmprivatewealth.com
- financial planning, retirement, and succession resources
Money Sense Radio Show: https://www.pwmprivatewealth.com/radio
- weekly insights on planning, tax, and retirement

About Our Guest

Kevin Hegedus is the Founder and Managing Partner of PWM Private Wealth Counsel in Saskatchewan. A Certified Financial Planner and Registered Portfolio Manager, Kevin has more than 25 years of experience guiding families, business owners, and farm operators through complex financial decisions. He specializes in connecting investment, tax, and estate planning strategies to help clients achieve clarity and confidence. Kevin is also the long-time host of the Money Sense radio show and a regular speaker on topics such as retirement income planning, succession, and intergenerational wealth.

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Timestamps

[0:00:36] — Introduction & purpose of the podcast (alignment in farm family vision).
[0:03:18] — Identity and challenges of farm business owners.
[0:04:26] — Misalignment between spouses’ vision for retirement and transition timing.
[0:06:57] — Three key farm transition snapshot points: income streams, housing, fairness.
[0:08:36] — Scenarios for retiree income and transition, selling equipment, rental of land.
[0:12:58] — Financial transparency, farm women, and discovering hidden wealth.
[0:13:49] — Managing sibling disagreement and succession, splitting the farm.
[0:16:53] — Equal vs. fair inheritance, the role of insurance for fairness.
[0:19:01] — The value of early planning and tools for transition.
[0:21:26] — Building personal wealth, tax-free savings, and retirement income.
[0:23:22] — Fee structure for financial advisors and value proposition.
[0:25:08] — Historical reasons for tax avoidance mentality in farming.
[0:27:25] — Income-splitting, tax strategies for retirement, the importance of financial planning.
[0:29:57] — Income challenges for the next generation of farmers, debt options.
[0:32:05] — Open family discussions for smoother transition and succession.
[0:34:18] — The importance of family meetings, celebrations, and communication.
[0:35:33] — Contingency planning for aging farmers and long-term care.
[0:36:39] — Advocating for women’s roles in planning and independence.
[0:37:53] — The “poison pill” in farm succession and legal protections.
[0:39:43] — Final advice: have open conversations about future planning, income, and fairness.

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57: How to Give Family Workers Performance Feedback

Elaine Froese — Tue, 09 Dec 2025 18:24:29 +0000

In this episode, I sit down with Lyndsay Seafoot, Human Resources Specialist and owner of Curbridge Consulting, for a practical conversation about one of the toughest dynamics on family farms: how to give performance feedback to family members.

Lindsay brings years of experience helping farm businesses create clarity around roles, job descriptions, and communication. Together, we explore why giving feedback to employees often feels easier than giving it to your own relatives, and how to change that.

We discuss how clear expectations, structured check-ins, and respectful communication can help farm families move from frustration to alignment. Lindsay also shares actionable tools for creating a more professional workplace culture without losing the warmth of family.

If you’ve ever struggled to balance accountability with compassion, or wondered how to have honest conversations that don’t end in conflict, this episode will show you how feedback — when done right — can strengthen both your team and your relationships.

“When you’re working with family, feedback can feel personal, but it doesn’t have to be. Clear communication, defined roles, and regular check-ins help take the emotion out of it and keep everyone moving in the same direction.” – Lyndsay Seafoot, CPHR

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About Our Guest

Lyndsay Seafoot is the founder of Curbridge, Stand Out Staff, and Directors Desk, all of which are companies focused on building expert-level HR for companies and organizations. Lyndsay started in entrepreneurship in her 20s but has been focused on building and growing her HR companies since 2020. Lyndsay has a CPHR designation, and with her 14 years of experience in the field, she has worked with companies across the prairies to develop strong HR foundations that allow companies to grow, hire better, retain more, and get some peace of mind when it comes to employees and managing them.

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Timestamps

[0:00:33] Introduction and guest welcome; Lyndsay’s HR expertise.
[0:01:35] Defining frameworks and the need for HR foundations on farms.
[0:03:00] Feedback challenges in farm families and key performance feedback questions.
[0:04:34] Defining performance feedback: types (real-time vs. formal).
[0:05:50] Communication issues and useful vs. unhelpful language for feedback.
[0:10:11] When to give performance feedback and why it is often avoided in farm families.
[0:14:33] How younger generations can seek effective feedback and build common ground.
[0:18:33] Technology for farm procedure clarity; importance of face-to-face feedback.
[0:20:15] How farm spouses/partners can encourage feedback initiation.
[0:23:47] The cost of lacking feedback: retention, engagement, and the farm’s reputation.
[0:29:20] Leadership’s role in scheduling and prioritizing feedback meetings.
[0:32:47] Addressing the “not my job” mindset and fostering the right farm culture.
[0:36:57] Accountability for improvement; holding family members to professional standards.
[0:40:03] Key takeaways: respect, common ground, and choosing your response.

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56: How to Take More Control Over Your Future

Elaine Froese — Tue, 25 Nov 2025 05:00:03 +0000

In this episode, I talk about what it really means to take back control of your future, especially if you’re feeling stuck, micromanaged, or unheard in your family farm transition.

I explore why so many farmers find themselves frustrated and uncertain, waiting for others to make decisions that deeply affect their future. From micromanaging parents to unspoken fears about letting go, I unpack the root causes of these tensions and the mindset shifts needed to move forward.

I also share how curiosity, courage, and communication can turn conflict into clarity, and why it’s time to stop accepting bad behavior, start setting boundaries, and make this winter the season you finally take action.

If you’ve ever thought, “Things can’t keep going like this,” this episode will help you see that progress starts with you — one honest conversation, one clear boundary, and one next step at a time.

“You can’t change your parents, but you can change yourself, and that’s where the real power lies. The moment you decide to stop waiting for someone else to fix it and start taking action, that’s when your future begins to shift.” – Elaine Froese

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Timestamps

[0:00:30] – Introduction and discussion about harvest season and Christmas
[0:08:09] – Addressing micromanagement and family dynamics in farming
[0:16:53] – Strategies for having difficult conversations and planning for the future
[0:19:01] – Urgency of making changes and managing time effectively

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